Strap on Dildo - Harness for Wearing a Dildo

Strap on Dildo Harnesses for Women and Men

Quality strap on dildo harnesses provide a means for two women to penetrate each other in positions similar to heterosexual intercourse. The harness system generally consists of a stable platform on the pelvic / pubic area to which a dildo is attached. This is held in place by a system of straps that are worn around the waist, and between the legs.

The strap-on dildo is typically associated with lesbian lovemaking, but women can also penetrate men with a strap-on, as well as each other. This can take place in regular lovemaking, or 'femdom' style domination.

Men with erectile dysfunction issues can use a dildo harness in a similar way as a penis extension or penile prosthetic.

A decent strap on dildo system is is able to be worn comfortably by the user, and it should be adjustable as well as durable. Leather harnesses are often regarded as best, both for durability, and for how the leather feels on the skin.

On a dildo harness like this vac-u-lock model, the attachment is interchangeable with others of different sizes, shapes and materials, all of which plug onto the front of the harnesses using a tight fitting male / female coupling. This ways the dildo can be easily removed from the harness for cleaning as well. The vac-u-lock system is probably the only modular, universal dildo system of it's kind, with as many attachments as there are for it (dozens).

This is an useful adjustability feature in itself with the vac u lock system, so that one leather strap-on harness can be used with several sizes of dido attachments. You can even get vibrator attachments.

The best straps are made of leather, and can be adjusted with buckles so that one size can comfortable fit most body types. People with larger hips can often adapt a strap on dildo harness system by adding extension straps to the harness.

Some special dildo harnesses have vaginal plugs, and|or butt plugs on the dorsal strap that goes under the wearer and between the legs. Not only do these plugs offer some pleasure for the harness wearer, they also help to keep the dildo harness stable during enthusiastic sessions.

Men can use these, women can use them on men, or on other women. You aren't limited to any sexual position, although doggy style probably works the best for control. Somehow the angles are often better for thrusting this way, helping to achieve a long, smooth stroke.

For cleaning the strap leather, remove the dildo, and use a little bit of saddle soap (from a shoe store). Follow the instructions on the soap, and you should have clean leather harness straps, without cracking, drying or shrinking. This is important in making sure your strap-on dildo harness keeps you happy for a long time.

The dildo can be washed as you would any other, with soap and warm water. Make sure it's dry before storing.

Wikipedia has a page here on these harness systems.